BONTEHEUWEL MISSION EBENEZER CHAPEL

Substance Abuse Awareness Presentation

"A.S.A." would like to say Thank you Arthur, Chester & Chanlyn from Bonteheuwel Mission Ebenezer Chapel for the opportunity to share with the Parents & Youth the reality of substance abuse & its devastating consequences. Friday the 4th of June 2010 was the first of an Substance Abuse Awareness Presentation in lieu of a support group for the Bonteheuwel community which was motivated by Mark Kirby, an ex drug addict whom was empowered through support groups and now wants the same opportunity for others, using the local Church as a venue for the families affected & infected by Substance Abuse. More Parents are needed to attend these sought of programmes as it highlights more than just drugs and its consequences, but also empowers parents with do's & dont's. As parents we find ourselves often not knowing what to do if we have a love one caught up in the addiction cycle and as a result we go after our emotions or get advice from different people which sometimes only leaves you feeling more hopeless & confused. 

For more information on this Support Group Please feel free to contact Arthur on 072 194 0243 or Chester on 082 072 7339.

PS 144:1....A Psalm of David

BLESSED BE THE LORD MY STRENGTH, WHICH TEACHERS MY HANDS TO

WAR, AND MY FINGERS TO FIGHT:

MY GOODNESS, AND MY FORTRESS, MY HIGH TOWER, AND MY 

DELIVERER, MY SHIELD, AND IN WHOM I TRUST, WHO SUBDUES MY 

PEOPLE UNDER ME.

LORD, WHAT IS MAN, THAT THOU TAKE KNOWLEDGE OF HIM! OR THE SON

OF MAN, THAT THOU MAKES ACCOUNT OF HIM!

MAN IS LIKE TO VANITY; HIS DAYS ARE AS A SHADOW THAT PASSES

AWAY.

BOW THY HEAVENS, O LORD, AND COME DOWN; TOUCH THE MOUNTAINS

AND THEY SHALL SMOKE.

CAST FOURTH LIGHTNING, AND SCATTER THEM; SHOOT OUT THINE

ARROWS, AND DESTROY THEM.

SEND THINE HAND FROM ABOVE; RID ME, AND DELIVER ME OUT OF

GREAT WATERS, FROM THE HAND OF STRANGE CHILDREN,

WHOSE MOUTH SPEAK VANITY, AND THEIR RIGHT HAND IS A RIGHT 

HAND OF FALSEHOOD:

THAT OUR SONS BE AS PLANTS GROWN UP IN THEIR YOUTH; THAT 

OUR DAUGHTERS MAY BE AS CORNERSTONES, POLISHED AFTER THE 

SIMILTUDE OF A PALACE:

THAT OUR GARNERS (STORES) MAY BE FULL, AFFORDING ALL MANNER OF

STORE:

THAT OUR SHEEP MAY BRING FOURTH THOUSANDS AND TEN THOUSANDS

IN OUR STREETS:

THAT OUR OXEN MAY BE STRONG TO LABOUR; THAT THERE BE NO

BREAKING IN, NOR GOING OUT; THAT THERE BE NO COMPLAINING IN OUR

STREETS.

HAPPY IS THAT PEOPLE, THAT IS IN SUCH A CASE: YEA, HAPPY IS THAT

PEOPLE, WHOSE GOD IS THE LORD.

KING JAMES W/APOCRYPHA 

"The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil, is for the good men & women of this world to do nothing"

Changing Lives

Michael (on the left) at a street soccer event in Kewtown where "ASA" came alongsongside Insp. Ian Bennett of Athlone SAPS (seen with Michael is Reece on shoulders & Jaqueline)

Michael's Testimony:

I have been an addict for the duration of 10 years. My drug of choice was Tik also known as crystal meth, I experimented with other drugs like dagga, mandrax & ecstasy.
It all started as a young boy wanting to have fun, little did I know that I was trying to cover up my hurt that I was trying to deal with. As a teenager I looked to the wrong people for acceptance, those people were the gangsters in the community. This is where I began experimenting with drugs, then became addicted to Tik & watched as it destroyed my family. They lived in fear of what I became, afraid, they did not know who would come looking for me at home, whilst I felt that the drugs were helping me cope with my problems.

 Five years into my Tik addiction, I was offered the opportunity to sell drugs on a major scale, I accepted. Police began to raid my parents home, however the selling continued. Even though this was ripping my family apart, they still showed me love. I had no regard for my family or their safety.

 My rock bottom during this period was when I was eventually picked up for possession of an illegal firearm and drugs. I was immediately confronted with the reality of the consequence of my actions, which was 15 years imprisonment. For the first time I was scared, who was going save me from this one?

 GOD had other plans for my life:
 Nobody could help me, hopelessnes crept in. It was then, that I turned to God, as I knew my fate was sealed in the hands of the courts the following day, it was a serious enough offence.
It was nothing short of a miracle that my life was spared. I recieved a second chance. I accepted the help I was offered & committed to an inpatient recovery programme. 

My life would be forever changed, I accepted the Lord Jesus Christ as my personal saviour & friend. Whilst on the programme I dealt with issues that had made me more susceptible to drugs. 
Family relations, trust that was broken was all restored. I learnt that it was more profitable to "HONOUR GOD with my LIFE".

Today I live for a purpose greater than myself, I offer assistance to those infected & affected by substance abuse. I'm currently doing my matric and also am a Youth leader in my community assisting with programmes that is aimed at transforming the minds of youth at risk and showing them a posative perspective on life. 

God has made this change possible in me, truly "CHRIST in me, is the HOPE of GLORY".

Insp. Ian Bennett Athlone SAPS

Active Social Assistance supported an Substance Abuse Awareness programme alongside Insp. Bennett of Athlone SAPS in Darling & Villiersdorp. The programme was hosted over two days as the farming communities are far apart from schools and place of work and you still find that some of the labour force including learners travel bare feet in this day and age. This reality is just a stone throw away from the Big City (Cape Town) yet we are so far removed from this reality "APATHY". 

Substance Abuse (TIK) has though found its way into the lives of these farming communities that were already struggling with the result of the "Dop" system. 

As Insp. Bennett begins to share his experiences & findings of the drug culture that exists within communnities & the reality of those infected and affected by substance abuse, one could pick up by the sad & almost blank expression on the faces of these learners, that they are definately affected in a negative way. Faces dropped, eyes became sad, little smiles became lost as the Inspector merely touch on certain points such as rape, violence in the home, etc.

Insp. Bennett empowering the kids (10111)

Drug paraphenalia seized by SAPS from school learnes used to inform kids of the dangers and the consequences of Substance Abuse

 

Our kids are not taking pencil crayons, pens, lunch, books or lunch money to school anymore. Parents, Guardians PLEASE love your kids, spend more time with your kids. If you not spending time with them, "WHO is"??? 

Faces of learners when the reality of the awareness programme came closer to home

ASA Bank acc. Details

Mark Kirby assisting with feeding scheme of families that attend our Support Group meetings. Mark was also an addict when he first came to our organization & today he is no longer a part of the problem, but a part of the solution. 'WELL DONE MARKY'

Active Social Assistance

donated a TV

to children's ward at Victoria Hospital Alton Fisher ("ASA's" Chairperson & Businessman) with Alida Eigelaar (Matron) and Bevan (Victoria Hospital's Asst. Director).On a recent visit to the local hospital "Active Social Assistance" identified one of the many needs and seen the TV as a posative contribution to the kiddies ward & in future would be assisting in donations of food stuff (fruit & vegetables) to the hospital.

Royston Bennett (Project co-ordinator for Active Social Assistance) donating fruit & veg to Alida Eigelaar of Victoria Hospital (Admin. Manager/ Head Matron)

ASA Brochure

Marriage Course 2009

"Active Social Assistance" Family Preservation Programmes consists of three legs, namely a Marriage Course, Raising Kids Course & the Finance Course. Experience & research spent in the substance abuse field has proven that kids coming out of a dysfunctional home environment are more susceptible to becoming addicts than others. It has been for this reason that we have implemented and now are offering programmes that are directed at parents & young married or unmarried couples.   

Feeding Scheme

This initiative helps families that are suffering the effects of substance abuse

 

Charity Golf Day
Venue: King David Golf Club

30 April 2010

Hey All Substance abuse and addiction can no longer be ignored, as this pandemic has swept through our communities like a Tsunami destroying families in its path. You or Someone you know has been affected or infected by substance abuse.

The members of "Active Social Assistance" (A.S.A.) has dedicated their lives to transform & empower addicts & families, especially those whom are more susceptible as a result of substance abuse and or consequential abuse of others. It is our mission to capacitate these individuals to the degree that they are enabled to better manage their lives.

Help can be costly & the many people just cannot afford treatment, especially the poorer communities. A.S.A however, has been assisting countless people & has never turned anyone away.

This year, A.S.A is starting off with a Golf Day in aid of raising funds to sustain the programmes (Awareness, early intervention, support groups, individual counselling and family preservation).

We invite you to be part of this family that makes a difference by supporting Our Golf Day fundraising initiative & "live for a purpose greater than yourself".

For more information about this please contact Royston on 073 506 0980 or Lolita 021 706 2000.

4 December -Siva Aalayam

Drug Awareness Collaboration

Despite heavy competition from the 2010 World Cup Soccer draw celebrations taking place in the city that same day and night, my impression was that the event remained very well-attended and supported by the community. Certainly, everyone who attended got an action-packed, informative experience, and much to think about afterwards.

Opening the proceedings was Royston Bennett; who; between the other speakers; described his own descent into a Tik-fuelled hell, which cost him his career, home, temporarily his sanity and nearly resulted in the death of his own wife and child by his  own hand.

It was almost hard to believe that such an engaging, intelligent and very likeable person like Royston could ever had become the single-minded monster he was so eloquently describing, and he really underscored the fact that no one - adult, teenager or child – could somehow be immune from addiction or able to control the effects of drug use, no matter what moral upbringing they came from, or how smart or funny they might be. There was a collective sigh of relief from the audience, as he later described being snatched from the jaws of certain tragedy through both the love and determination of his wife, Lolita, and his own resolve to recover. It was uplifting to hear how he was able to prevail over this shattering event and ultimately become a powerful force for good in the community through the establishment of treatment programmes for addicts and support for families.

Lolita Bennett was a suprise speaker at the event - she was the most surprised, as she had not been expecting to speak! Lolita movingly spoke from the heart about her fight to get Royston rehabilitated, starting from the time the Cape Argus published a letter from her “Tik has taken away my husband and I want him back” (Cape Argus 10/10/2005).

Lolita strikingly used the analogy of people as mirrors, able to shine/reflect light on one another, and pointed out that even shattered mirrors have this ability. Her strength and courage as a woman, wife and mother, in the face of obvious mortal danger, and her decision to publicly seek help was a lesson in love for us all.

Our principal guest speaker, Ellen Pakkies, was next to take the podium. Ellen was convicted in 2008 for the murder of her twenty-year old son Adam, who was addicted to the drug Tik. Instead of imprisonment, Ellen was given the opportunity to serve her sentence through community work, using her life experiences to help others in similar situations to her own.Pensive, with hands clasped protectively over her midsection, Ellen began to dissect her life in vivid, clinical, brutally honest detail, made even more horrifying by her almost matter-of-fact tone, which only occasionally betrayed a hint of heavily-guarded emotions.

Starting with an account of her sexual abuse beginning at the age of four, moving on to being a virtual sex-slave as an adolescent, to describing being gang-raped multiple times, contracting STDs, and being attacked, traumatised and abused by her husband, as well as by her son Adam; Ellen’s story was deeply shocking to us all. The incredible burden of pain that she had carried for so long could only have been excacerbated during the seven years of torment suffered in dealing with her son’s addiction – the savage abuse, continual theft and violence that she described during this period alone would have broken many people, and driven them to desperate acts.

Ellen’s straight-forward description of murdering her son, the bleakness of her thoughts at the time, and the aftermath, were an uncomfortably cathartic climax to everything we had just heard. We all pray that Ellen will eventually be able to enjoy peace and resolution in her life, and thank her for her courage in speaking out so honestly about these issues.

Next on the podium was Police Inspector Ian Bennett, who is the Media Liason Officer and Social Crime Officer serving the Athlone community. As opposed to talking about the actual drugs used and the drug trade, which might have seemed the obvious route for his talk to take, Inspector Bennett instead spoke about our children, and our interaction with them as parents and adults in the community.

Inspector Bennett (Ian), is an extremely quotable and impassioned, capable speaker - I jotted down a few of the many gems he gave out:

“The biggest policing is parenting.”

“If we are not talking to our kids, who is talking to them?” He then answered this question himself with “The guy with the gold chain and the rings, that’s who.”

“One thing that gangsters get right that we as parents don’t, is that they acknowledge our kids”

“We need to talk to our kids in a positive way right from an early age – if we don’t believe in our kids, who will? The gangsters will, that’s who.”

“The difference between being big (grown up), and being adult, is that adults know that they must protect their kids.”

 Editorial by Alan Vesty